The little lie we tell ourselves final
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[00:00:00] Speaker: Oh, the little lie that we tell ourselves that we must add so much more to everything we're doing and that's the only way to grow. This is not the case. And in today's video I'm gonna talk to you about why adding more, dragging out your programs and making everything even longer is actually hurting you, not just financially but also in trying to become a time billionaire. If you want to have time to enjoy life, money that supports it. Adding this long program or adding more stuff to do is killing you. We're gonna talk about how to eliminate all. Here's the secret. We need to subtract things out of our programs.
[00:00:44] Speaker: All right, let's talk about this because everything you probably hear out there is add more, give away, make it worth the money that they're gonna spend. I'm gonna tell you, that is all wrong. Now if you are saying in order for you to support a $10,000 program, you must add all of these templates and coaching sessions and everything else.
[00:01:07] Speaker: I wanna tell you right now that is wrong. That is somebody telling you to do that because in their mind, that validates the price. But I'm gonna tell you right now what actually validates the price for a $10,000 coaching program.
[00:01:21] Speaker: It is so simple. You're gonna be like, that's not even true. But it is. It is the bigger problem that you solve. If you find a bigger [00:01:30] problem to solve and you say, I can solve this huge problem for you in one hour, will you pay me a hundred thousand dollars? I use an analogy in another video I made.
[00:01:41] Speaker: I said, if Tony Robbins said, Christina, I'll fix all your problems in one hour, but it costs $1 million. I literally would pull out my checkbook and I'd be like, who do I make the check to? Hell yes, Tony Robbins. Let's do this, because they are fixing the biggest problem that I have, and maybe he just says one thing
[00:02:02] Speaker: that changed everything, but I need that. I don't want Tony Robbins to say, okay, I'll give you my, cassette tapes, i'll give you all my books, I'll give you my courses. I'll introduce you to my, team, and you can have all this stuff.
[00:02:17] Speaker: All I hear is what? More freaking work. All I do is work. I don't wanna work anymore.
[00:02:24] Speaker: People hear noise. If you're going after a higher tier woman founder
[00:02:29] Speaker: when someone says, oh, you have to do all this stuff, we'll give you all this stuff. To come into this program. I'm like, no, I'm good. There is a community somebody wanted me to be part of i'm like, tell me about the community.
[00:02:42] Speaker: Oh, you have to make sure you come to the monthly meetings or you get penalized, then you have to come and do certain kind of community with it and they're gonna teach you about, marketing and business. I'm like. Thanks. I appreciate it. I've been an entrepreneur for 20 years. Most people don't have [00:03:00] tax returns like mine.
[00:03:01] Speaker: Most people don't know what I know because I have a master's in taxation. I'm not at
[00:03:05] Speaker: Starter level, and I'm sitting here going, you require me to come to meetings. If my 13-year-old son has a game, I'm there. I'm not coming to a meeting. Like we need to understand. That adding more is actually hurting us. And so when you come to someone and you're trying to sell a premium tier service, you're hurting yourself adding more. If you're charging more, it should be less. I'm gonna give you less, but the problem's bigger.
[00:03:31] Speaker: You're gonna get a result that's so impactful. It changes everything. So like my experience, the experience live in Nashville. We're working hardcore. This is efficiency.
[00:03:42] Speaker: You're with a team, you're working on a case study. Everybody presents different things that they learn because that's how you learn it, immersive. Tony Robbins, I love Tony Robbins. Be immersive in the problem and you'll learn it.
[00:03:53] Speaker: You're learning how to income jump. We're looking at the businesses, no two events are ever the same because the people in the room make the room. We curate around the people who come for that event, which is amazing.
[00:04:05] Speaker: By the end of the day, you're actually implementing this income jump into your business, getting help from everybody in the room who's already just studied and learned how to do it. With me walking around, helping everybody do it, by the end of the day, you have a plan in place, you are ready. But here's the cool thing.
[00:04:21] Speaker: We go out to dinner, we celebrate. We let our subconscious in our mind relax, have some joy, have some happiness, then the next day you come in for brunch. [00:04:30] And here's why the brunch is really important. It's because when you're brunching and you're just calmed down, you're just dressed in casual wear.
[00:04:38] Speaker: You're sitting, your brain had time to actually go through stuff. Now you have questions, thoughts, wonders, all the stuff that kind of came to you after you let yourself to relax and let everything process. Now you ask your questions, we come back, we take a second look. We look at different things. We're having conversations.
[00:04:56] Speaker: We realize maybe we need to be introduced to somebody, whatever it might be. That is our time. But here's the deal. The experience is not a three day mega event with a whole bunch of breakout rooms and different vendors. None of that noise. It is a lot of freaking noise.
[00:05:12] Speaker: After that, you head home. It's a compact time.
[00:05:16] Speaker: Why? Because I know I'm solving one of your biggest problems right now is how do I go to the next level without growing instead of building, I wanna build, I wanna work less. I've spent years working hard already.
[00:05:31] Speaker: I built something great. I'm in consistent sales. I'm good, but I'm not great. Can you help me go to great? Can you help me make a lot more money without doing more work? And yes I can. But do you see what I've done? It's a short timeframe, less work.
[00:05:48] Speaker: There'll be a lot of curation on my side, but I don't have to create all these panels and peoples and concepts and everything. No, that's a lot of work for the person putting on the event. And are you really walking away [00:06:00] with anything? Just some information, but most of that information I can get on chat instead.
[00:06:04] Speaker: We need the experience. We need to be immersive. We need to be able to be in it, in the moment, the thick of it to really figure out what we need to do. This is where it changes so. Think about that, about what you're doing, understanding that we tell ourself this little lie, that we just add more stuff and we'll be able to charge more.
[00:06:26] Speaker: This is why that's not working. when you're looking at your offers right now, the services that you have, the business that you're running, where can we really start snipping it? Where can we take things out?
[00:06:38] Speaker: A lot of people don't want things, they want money, they want happiness. They wanna feel fulfilled. They wanna feel like they actually enjoy everything they're doing. So let's give that to them. Let's find the bigger problem that they need to solve. We need to stop telling ourselves a lie, that adding more solves our problem.
[00:07:00] Speaker: Okay? Find the bigger problem to solve. Make sure the price point you are comfortable with, your identity speaks to that, right? Have you ever paid for a $10,000 offer if you have not, go pay for one? Because as identities, we need to be able to do it.
[00:07:15] Speaker: You want to embody what you wanna become if you're going to sell these high tickets and you wanna make more money with less people by charging more, getting the right people in. That is easier, is by using the audience you already [00:07:30] have.
[00:07:30] Speaker: There's all these different ways, but if you're gonna do this. Your identity needs to speak to what it is. That means you need to understand that if you're gonna reach out to someone who's, let's say, 'cause you might get someone coming in who makes a million dollars a year, like you need to be okay with the fact that, Hey, this person's spending $24,000 on my program.
[00:07:49] Speaker: Like I need to be able to accept and be like, I would spend the same, and you would never, ever do that, then we have a problem with identity. We need to change that first. So all of us I talk about ultimately leads back to being a time billionaire.
[00:08:03] Speaker: Being a time billionaire is where you are actually able to enjoy life, where your business is making money while you live and enjoy yourself, and you're not in the thick of it. Okay? We want that life. I want that life for you. That is why I have created all the stuff I've created.
[00:08:19] Speaker: This is why I give my whole system away here on YouTube and on my podcast.
[00:08:23] Speaker: The rest of this is all coming to you out of the goodness of my heart, because nobody's talking about this. You need to understand what you're able to do, and I want you to be a time billionaire. In today's world, it is getting worse. Do you agree that we just don't have the ability to live the lifestyle we want?
[00:08:43] Speaker: And I thought back to childhood and I was like, I remember when it was so easy. Like, all the kids would play outside, kicking balls, running around, just having fun.
[00:08:52] Speaker: What happened? ~Like, ~I'm outside. I'm like, where's the kids? Oh, on their iPads, where's the adults on their iPads? ~Right? ~We're not enjoying [00:09:00] those moments anymore. This is a pivotal change in our world.
[00:09:04] Speaker: I'm telling you. I feel it. It's a big change coming. People want to be able to have time and enjoy themselves. Gen Zs are starting to put down their phones. They're saying, I'm tired of it. I'm a millennial. I put my phone down so much now, I look at my phone and I'm like, it's nothing but junk. Like it's just noise that I don't wanna hear anymore.
[00:09:25] Speaker: I turned off all my notifications. The only get notifications for my kids, anything important, and of course, hear my business like when people DM me or wanna have a conversation, I have those, but there's select times that I actually review them. We need to enjoy our life. We need to take time to be present in the moment.
[00:09:43] Speaker: We need to stop all this other noise and guess what happens? We find joy and fulfillment. We find happiness. We embrace our partners, our kids we're like finally enjoying it. And so I'm on that journey. I'm a time billionaire. That's how I identify now. What I am, and I'm striving every day to live that life.
[00:10:06] Speaker: And I want you to do the same thing. So if you love this and you wanna be a time billionaire, you wanna learn everything about income jumping, ecosystem stacking all the stuff I talk about my framework, make sure you subscribe here on YouTube. If you're on my podcast, like it, jump over to YouTube too.
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[00:10:33] Speaker: Get a nice little discount, get your spot, get your income jump going, make way more money, and let's start being time billionaires together. Thank you for watching me here on YouTube, listening to me on my podcast, the Christina Kokologiannakis Show. I'm excited to have you here. Make sure you check out my other videos and thank you for being part of my world. I'll see you on the next video right now.